“I thought I was in a healthy, happy relationship until we built a house.” I saw a homeowner say that once, and judging by the responses, she was not alone. Building a house can put enormous pressure on a relationship. It combines large amounts of money, hundreds of decisions, changing deadlines, temporary living arrangements, and a steady parade of people needing answers. Then it asks two tired human beings to agree on all of it. What could possibly go wrong? Quick answer Bu