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Worst Case Scenario (And Why It Won’t Take You Out)
Worst case scenerio When I was about 16, my family took one of our annual vacations. We didn’t go far; money was usually tight, but that year, we were headed to the Texas Hill Country. The Alamo, a few stops along the way… nothing fancy, just something different. We left around 4 in the morning in our tank of a car, a Ford Granada station wagon. That part matters. We hit I-35 South, half awake, a little excited. And I still remember the exact moment everything changed. The so

Tiffany Tillema
6 days ago3 min read


Dealing with the Jobsite Narcissist: Outsmarting the Bully Without Losing Your Cool
He (and sometimes she) shows up on the jobsite, in your inbox, or even in your comment section with one goal: to make you look and feel inferior. He’ll try to paint you as the “crazy emotional woman” who doesn’t belong on the crew. He’ll try to drag you into arguments online so he can twist your words and make you look like the problem. You’re not alone — and you’re not powerless. The key is learning how to recognize a narcissist’s tricks and quietly pop that ego bubble witho

Tiffany Tillema
Oct 13, 20253 min read


The Dangerous Woman: Why it Takes Courage to be Mild
The quote above sits with me, maybe because I’ve lived it so many times. We often think of courage as something loud and dramatic....

Tiffany Tillema
Jul 21, 20252 min read


Pick Your Battles: Thriving as a Woman in the Trades
As a woman in the trades for over 30 years and a mentor to other women in male-dominated industries, I understand that most of these groups

Tiffany Tillema
Feb 18, 20252 min read
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