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Your Hard Hat Has an Expiration Date (Yes, Really)
Let’s start with a confession.
Most of us treat our hard hats like trusty old trucks. If it still starts, we keep driving it. If it still fits, we keep wearing it. And if it’s covered in stickers from jobs we’re proud of? Even better.
But here’s the thing nobody tells you early enough in the trades:
Hard hats expire.
And no, that’s not a suggestion.

Tiffany Tillema
Jan 123 min read


What Survives the Cold: Lessons from 32 Years in Business
At the end of 2025, both my shrimp and I were on the edge of disaster.
Now, at the beginning of 2026, I can finally see light at the end of the tunnel (and hopefully it's not a train.)
There is hope. Clearer, warmer waters are ahead.
Sometimes those of us who have been in business a long time get complacent. We think we’ve seen it all. We think nothing can take us down.
That couldn’t be further from the truth.

Tiffany Tillema
Jan 93 min read


The Communication Game: Why Two Sets of Eyes (and Ears) Can Save a Bid
As Pete started reading the building (his superpower, truly), she leaned in with:
“Why would you do that?”
“Are you 100% sure?”
“How would that work?”
Perfectly reasonable questions… unless you’re a contractor who’s been burned by know-it-all homeowners armed with Google and YouTube.
I saw it instantly. She asked a question → Pete interpreted it as a challenge → he drifted as far away from us as possible to go inspect the other side of the building.

Tiffany Tillema
Dec 4, 20253 min read


Dealing with the Jobsite Narcissist: Outsmarting the Bully Without Losing Your Cool
He (and sometimes she) shows up on the jobsite, in your inbox, or even in your comment section with one goal: to make you look and feel inferior. He’ll try to paint you as the “crazy emotional woman” who doesn’t belong on the crew. He’ll try to drag you into arguments online so he can twist your words and make you look like the problem. You’re not alone — and you’re not powerless. The key is learning how to recognize a narcissist’s tricks and quietly pop that ego bubble witho

Tiffany Tillema
Oct 13, 20253 min read


The Dangerous Woman: Why it Takes Courage to be Mild
The quote above sits with me, maybe because I’ve lived it so many times. We often think of courage as something loud and dramatic....

Tiffany Tillema
Jul 21, 20252 min read


Intimidation on the Job Site: How to Handle Bullying
Most of us have been intimidated, or let’s be honest, bullied, at some point. “Intimidation” is just the grown-up word we use to avoid...

Tiffany Tillema
Jul 21, 20254 min read


Pick Your Battles: Thriving as a Woman in the Trades
As a woman in the trades for over 30 years and a mentor to other women in male-dominated industries, I understand that most of these groups

Tiffany Tillema
Feb 18, 20252 min read


7 Ways Home Improvement Shows Mislead Viewers
We’ve all seen them: the charming couple helping a family find their dream home and transform it into a cozy, picture-perfect space....

Tiffany Tillema
Dec 6, 20243 min read


Who Needs Stitches? The Story of My First Mishap as a Bricklayer.
Bricklayers take particular pride in their injuries. Scars and mishaps are badges of honor, each with a story to tell. As a woman...

Tiffany Tillema
Dec 5, 20243 min read


The Hidden Battle: Fatigue
The quote "Fatigue makes cowards of us all" has been attributed to many different people. However, it was first penned by William...

Tiffany Tillema
Dec 4, 20233 min read


Material Delays: A New Normal
Around the year 2019, the Construction industry started noticing a trend. Construction materials began to rise in price. This was mostly...

Tiffany Tillema
Nov 15, 20235 min read


My Midlife Decision
When My Husband and I were young and first married, we started building our careers in the Masonry industry. My Husband would often get...

Tiffany Tillema
Oct 17, 20232 min read


Attracting and Keeping Women in the Trades
In 2008, a recession hit the construction industry pretty hard. Many companies did not recover, and thousands lost their jobs. In 2019...

Tiffany Tillema
Jul 25, 20235 min read


10 Ways to Avoid Getting Scammed after a Natural Disaster
It is inevitable. You survive a hurricane, tornado, or what my hometown just went through, a rare Derecho, and the "contractors " appear...

Tiffany Tillema
Jun 27, 20236 min read


New Texas Bills That will affect the Construction Industries
The construction industry in Texas has been impacted by several new state laws, including the Texas Regulatory Consistency Act H.B 2127,...

Tiffany Tillema
Jun 21, 20233 min read


Materials Receipts and Expense Reports Are Contractors required to show them?
Are Contractors and sub-contractors required to show expenses? The short answer is no. most of the time. A Homeowner cannot usually ask...

Tiffany Tillema
May 9, 20234 min read


How much should you be paying?
When you enter a contract with a contractor, your final price will reflect their labor and material expenses, overhead, and profit....

Tiffany Tillema
Jun 29, 20222 min read
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